You're Taking Me Where?

I live in a medium-sized city in California, not a real racy or cutting edge town. I was going on the ever important second date. The first one had gone well, with dinner and drinks. There was chemistry, so I was looking forward to the second date. So we're in the car and I ask where we are headed (we'd only had a vague discussion about going to a club). He says "[name of club]." I say, "huh?" I'd never heard of it.

So we walk in and there are transvestites tending bar. There are men dancing with men and women dancing with women. He took me to a gay bar on our second date! Then, to make things even more complicated, he grabs my hand as we head to the bar. So is he holding my hand because he likes me or because he doesn't want to get hit on by men?

We actually ended up dating for about six months. Then one night on the phone he said, "talk to you tomorrow." I never heard from him again....

Elaine, California

posted by Lola and Zoe @ 10:06 PM Comments: 0